Hi all,
Now that we've covered the Lord's ways dealing with Cain and with us, we can look at how He deals with His own emotions and how He interacts with us emotionally - that may sound strange, but consider Moses when the Lord wanted to wipe Israel off the map and start over with his family, from Exodus 32:10-14: "Now leave me alone that my wrath may burn hot against them and I will destroy them, and make of you a great nation!"
 
That is emotion! Wrath is to be distinguished from anger in that anger is abiding while wrath flares up quickly and dies down just as quickly. The Lord was experiencing the emotions of (justified) wrath against Israel for their hard hearts against Him. It was justified so it was not sin, whereas unjustified wrath would be sin the same way unjustified anger is sin, while justified anger is not. 
 
How did Moses talk to the Lord in His emotional condition? "Why should your anger burn hot against your people, whom you brought out of Egypt with great power and a mighty hand? Why should the Egyptians say 'It is with evil intent He brought them out, to kill them in the mountains, and to wipe them off the face of the earth?' Turn from your fierce anger and relent of your wrath against your people." Moses asked the Lord to step back and look at history, all they meant to one another, the big picture. Don't throw that away Lord. Look at what we've meant to one another, look at all the work and investment you made in the relationship with Israel. 
 
Notice 'turn from your fierce anger' and 'relent'. Some versions mistakenly use the word 'repent', but the Hebrew means 'to turn from' and has nothing to do with feeling sorry for feeling that way, it just means turn from this emotion to logic. Moses appealed to reason, to bring His emotions back under the control of His reasoning processes. This is exactly what the Lord expected of Cain when He asked the 3 questions: "Why are you angry? Why has your face fallen? If you do right won't it be accepted?" The Lord tried to get Cain to step back and look at the big picture, the whole of their relationship and asked him to do what was right in spite of what he felt at that moment. 
 
Moses continued, this time appealing to the integrity of the Lord: "Remember Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob your servants, to whom you swore by your own self, 'I will multiply your seed as the stars of heaven, and all this land will I give to your offspring...' And the Lord relented of the wrath He had threatened." Moses appealed to the covenant, to the larger picture to cause the Lord to step back from the intense moment and the emotions that flared. Moses caused the Lord to take a step back and look at the big picture. That is what the Lord did with Cain, trying to get him to see the larger picture of just doing what is right in spite of how he felt at the moment. 
 
The Lord told Barb something when she was very hurt by a friend who got offended at her and cut off their friendship: "Don't turn a moment into a life time. It's only a moment." She was able to step back from the emotions of hurt with that word - it still hurt of course and having been victimized by this friend's immaturity she won't allow herself to be hurt again by her, but it was just a moment, so she moved on, stopped looking in the rearview mirror of what was lost, and focused on the present.
 
Approachable in the midst of intense emotions
That the Lord would have the emotion of wrath and that He would be willing to be spoken to by a mere man reveals how humble and approachable He is and how literally we are created like Him - for we can see ourselves in His emotions. And we are to be like Him in this as well, approachable even in the midst of wrath. 
 
This element of approachability in the midst of emotions that are swirling around threatening to explode over everyone in our path is something we must have in our hearts as well - think of that - Moses alone stood before God's wrath and a whole nation, and the Lord allowed Himself to be spoken to like that. He allow Himself to be calmed down, to be reasoned with in the midst of His emotions.. We must be like that - certainly He allowed this incident to be recorded for our instruction and example!
 
The immature Christian and their emotions
Here again we see the value of being in relationship with others in the faith who can speak into our lives. We could say Moses was on the same spiritual page as the Lord - their relationship was such they could each speak into each other's lives, for "the Lord would speak to Moses face to face, as one speaks to a friend." (Ex 23:11). 
 
As I've said before, anyone can say they are born again, but whether they are or are not is impossible to prove. Therefore God designed His righteousness to be revealed and worked through within relationships. Salvation, being of the spirit man, remains unproven except as revealed outwardly in the relationships we maintain. We need others to speak into our lives, to sand off the rough edges, to be used by the Lord to cause us to see ourselves through the eyes of others. That is the tougher road to follow, the one of transparency and humility, the one in which a person looks at everything and everyone as God's handiwork able to speak into our lives, even if unintentionally, even if the devil is behind it trying to destroy us - we look for what God can make of a horrible situation and how what the devil intended for our destruction might be used of God to grow us and strengthen us. 
 
When we offend, most often it was unintentional on our part but to them we were rude or sarcastic or had an attitude so they felt justified in throwing away the relationship. 
(In our high tech world this is made worse in that emails and texts don't convey emotions and tone, and therefore the reader can attach any emotion or tone they wish when they read the email or text. Emoticons were invented to convey the emotion and tone of a message because what is written in email or text cannot do so).
 
I've seen churches split because 1/2 the congregation was unhappy because the other 1/2 voted for dark green carpet for the sanctuary instead of burgundy. I've known friendships to be ended because one person said they didn't have time to talk right then and the other got so offended and hurt they dropped their friend like they had the plague. I knew of another church split because the new pastor moved the Communion chalice and bread plate table from the platform to the floor in front of the platform. 
 
And yet those same people who are so quick to cut the relationship with you stay at their job when someone at their work offends them, or their boss yells at them, or their company has a health care plan covering situations they don't agree with, or they continue to go to movies which use the Lord's name in vain...but let another brother or sister say "I'm busy right now" or "I just can't deal with this now can we talk later" and they cut off the relationship. 
 
They are not only hypocrites, but that hypocrisy is revealed in the fact they are emotions-led. Spirit-led reason doesn't throw away a long and good friendship, or walk out of a church because 1/2 voted for the color they didn't vote for.
 
What do you do with Christians who live their Christian lives being led by emotions rather than reason and a desire to grow in maturity?
And that's where we'll pick it up next week. Until then, blessings, 
John Fenn
www.cwowi.org and email me at cwowi@aol.com
 
 

Hi all,
Consider how the culture of the world encourages people to live by emotion rather than reasoning: Advertising is designed to get specific emotional responses from us whether it be a cute ad, a funny ad, or a sexy ad, they are all designed to stir emotions more than logic. Consider auditorium church culture. The beautiful building, the raucous start to most worship services are with songs designed to get a person up and moving around, pleas for money or to volunteer in an program, or a soul-stirring message designed to motivate the congregation - as I have said, much of auditorium church culture has substituted emotion for the anointing. (Manifest presence of God). The world tries to train people to live by emotion. (And many 'Christian' web sites link with a spirit of fear to cause believers to keep turning to their site out of fear, under the guise of 'I just want to see what is happening in the alternative media', but it is really masking the spirit of fear)
 
God created us to live in balance with our reasoning and logic working together to walk with Him through life.
 
Recent studies show the average attention span of people (Millennial age group) have dropped from 12 seconds at the turn of the century to just 8 seconds today. That's right, you have 8 seconds to capture that person watching your TV commercial, or reading your print ad or article - that departure from logic explains so much doesn't it? It explains why politics has become so nasty in the US at least. My generation was trained to attack ideas, not the person. Today it is the opposite. 
(Here is a link of just one such report if interested: https://www.prlog.org/12654134-freelance-writer-kimberly-blakers-blog-to-help-businesses-address-declining-attention-spans.html)
 
So does church culture
I noticed emotions taking over rather than the study of God's Word and Ways back in the 1980's, and it became more pronounced in the 1990's to the point in the late 1990's many people equated emotion with the Holy Spirit. To stir the emotions was equivalent to feeling the Holy Spirit for many churches. Wrong. Wrong spirit. 
 
I saw Word of Faith teachers taking verses (especially about money) so far out of context and building doctrine I thought no one in their right mind would believe that - yet millions did. When I went to work with another ministry that associated itself and promoted ministers who built intercessory prayer and personal prophecy up to an unhealthy level, and saw many lives ruined by 'personal prophecy'without any reasoning or common sense applied, I thought surely we are close to the end of days! 
 
And now with the Internet connecting people who have given themselves over to everything from a commonly held spirit of fear to every stray and weird belief out there, all in the name of God, I wonder where did the ability to reason go? When did we get to the place we sacrificed the brains God gave us in favor of emotion-based beliefs wrapped in spirituality that causes people to completely abandon all logic and common sense? Common sense isn't too common any longer. Don't confuse me with facts, my mind is already made up. People want to be right more than they want the truth. 
 
Back to Cain...
After the Lord asked him 3 questions and received no answer: "Why are you angry?" "Why has your face fallen?" "If you do right, won't it be accepted?" the Lord lays out His plan. His method of dealing with emotions, which in this case as is so often with us if not dealt with properly, can lead to sin and error in decisions: "If you don't do what is right, sin is crouching at your door and it desires to have you. But you must rule over it." (Genesis 4:7)
 
We've lost that backbone today - the concept of ruling over the sin desire. We want counseling, we want an instant deliverance, we want someone to make it all go away, remove that temptation from us once and for all! Wrong! We are on the earth, the devil is lose, your body wants to sin, and you must use discipline (that's almost a curse word for some people I think - discipline, ooh, I said it again. discipline). "Sin lies at your door and wants to have you. You must rule over it!"
 
Emotion is the door for blessing or curse
Notice the connection with emotion as the doorway by which Cain would either keep the devil on the outside of his life, or let him in. God said to him, 'If you don't do right sin is at your door...' Grab hold of your hurt Cain. Grab hold of your disappointment and anger Cain. Pull in the emotion and THINK...reason it out, do what is right!
 
Right there - right at that moment, the decision to do right or do wrong, is the first defense - logic. Reasoning. But it is the combination of turning away from the truth and the giving of himself to wrong emotions that opened the door for murder. James would later write in 3:14 in his passage about being intellectually honest with our own heart, "don't lie against the truth" (when you see something in your heart that isn't right, instead of hiding it, admit it to God and deal with it). Don't lie against the truth.
 
That is what Cain was doing - lying against the truth. He knew his heart, he knew what was right to do, but he didn't want to. It is wrong thought that opened the door to wrong emotion that led to sin. He set his will to do things the way he wanted, he insisted. 
 
We aren't taught that emotions can change direction like a flag on a flag pole blowing with the changing wind, but that is the truth. If you focus on what you don't like about your spouse, or about your life, then those wrong thoughts will lead to emotions turning away from them and give rise to wrong thoughts (lies) like how much better off you'd be on your own, or how so and so would make a better spouse...and the death spiral begins. Death to relationships, death to what you have that is good and right.
 
If a person arrests their emotions by stepping back intellectually to look at the larger picture, let us say that spouse in this situation, and intellectually search for why they first fell in love, want what IS right about their life and marriage, then the emotions will start to swing towards the favorable. The instruction of Matthew 7:12 & Luke 6:31
that we call 'The Golden Rule' is actually a road map of healthy thought followed by healthy emotion: 
 
"Do to others what you want them to do to you." Think that through. That is a command to take the initiative, to be on the offensive to actively do as a lifestyle to others what you would want them to do back to you. You don't wait for them to come around to see things your way - you do to them what you would have them do to you. 
 
You want your husband to take you to a romantic restaurant - you take the initiative to take him out. You want him to stop treating you with disrespect when in public, then you find ways to treat him with honor and respect in your statements to your friends about him. Men - you want her to be more loving at home, then you start treating her with love, finding special ways to do good to her that you would love for her to do to you. 
 
Emotions follow the thought processes and actions. Don't make your thoughts follow your emotions; that is what Cain did. Your emotions are to follow your healthy thought processes and healthy actions. Build a bridge, or build a wall. Sometimes you have to build that bridge several ways and times before a wall comes down and the other person starts building a bridge from their side of things. 
 
AFTER the murder, second verse same as the first
I've only covered Cain to this point, but because this is the first instance of the battle between logic and emotion played out along with how God deals with us in these things, it establishes a pattern we will see repeatedly throughout scripture and to our day. The Lord hasn't changed and He deals with us and has the same expectations on us today as He did on Cain way back then. He even uses the same methods of trying to reach us before we make a huge mistake. 
 
All I've covered thus far with Cain was BEFORE he killed Abel. The Lord was equally gracious to him after the murder. He asked him a question: "Where is your brother?" to which Cain lied in the pattern of those who are emotionally wrong and intellectually wrong ever since. "I don't know! Am I my brother's keeper?"
 
The progression of Cain's downfall and how God tried to reach him lays out for us a roadmap of the ways of the Lord. He is tender and merciful, and approaches us with questions designed to point out erroneous thoughts and feelings, and laying out for us the right way - and urging us to take that right way. 
 
We will look at other examples next week, until then...food for thought! Blessings
John Fenn
www.cwowi.org and email me at cwowi@aol.com
 

Hi all,
I opened this series last week setting the stage for the first recorded in-depth passage that details the mix of human reasoning and emotion, and God's dealing with us in these things. We pick it up with Cain being angry at God because He did not accept Cain's offering of vegetables from the cursed ground.  
 
Emotions boil out of control
Genesis 4:5 tells us Cain was angry with God for not accepting his offering, and his face was downcast - he was angry, sad, frustrated. Rather than submit to the righteousness of God, he chose to stubbornly dig in his heels and stand his ground, insisting he come to God in his own strength - and then had the nerve to be angry with God for not accepting his efforts. 
 
This is SO human isn't it? We fast for days on end for an answered prayer, then wonder why God hasn't moved? Trying to impress Him as we insist on foregoing food that we might manipulate Him into moving on our behalf, we have become Cain, and like him become angry when heaven doesn't answer. Fasting moves us into greater sensitivity as our drive for food gradually diminishes so we can focus on spiritual things, but it doesn't move God. 
 
We give time and money thinking 'look at the good I'm doing Father, now won't you return the favor and answer that prayer I really need the answer to' - we have become Cain once again, approaching God based on things we have done, trying to manipulate Him to move on our behalf.  
 
Abel simply walked with God and humbly did what God expected and desired - and God accepted him. 
 
The pattern of God's intervention into our emotional control
What happens after He rejects Cain's efforts to come to Him on his own terms sets the pattern for the Father dealing with our emotions to this day - we see the same pattern, the same methods, the same attempts He makes to reach us before our emotions take control of us. He asks Cain 3 separate questions yet Cain answers not a one: "Why are you angry?" "Why are you sad?" "If you do right won't it be accepted?" (Genesis 4: 6-7)
 
We read those in 1/2 a second often failing to realize this was a conversation and God as would anyone, expected an answer after each question: Why are you angry?
 
Right there - that is the point where God the Father reaches us today - Why are you angry? Examine your heart, examine your motives, examine your situation intellectually before you let your emotions take control and have the preeminence in this situation. Why are you angry? Look inside yourself, take a step back and examine the situation intellectually. Why are you angry? 
 
Jesus would later say in Matthew 5:22 that if a person is angry with his (spiritual) brother without cause he places himself in danger of various degrees of discipline and consequences. Anger justified is not sin. Anger without cause is sin. We are expected to cool our emotions and be honest and truthful with ourselves and God and do what is right as we think through the reasons for our anger. If we see the sin in our heart we repent in acknowledgment our anger is not justified. If it is justified we have not sinned. 
 
First attempt at controlling emotions: Examine the situation logically and intellectually - control your feelings
Cain was angry at God first, and angry at his brother second. He failed to answer God's first question: Why are you angry? That was an attempt by the Lord to get him to examine his heart intellectually and cause his emotions to submit to logic. Ouch - there's a thought - some people have never mastered that skill. Some people allow in the majority of times and situations, their emotions to immediately flare up and burst forth in an explosion over someone(s) without filter, without any thought first as to if they are just in their anger. These are spiritual babies and in fact, as human beings emotional babies, or at least emotional children.
 
I know many a man and woman who though mature in the years they've been alive, are emotional 10 year olds, pouting and demanding their own way and willing to show the world their temper tantrum and that they are upset. That's like a toddler...temper tantrum, yep, adults behaving like children - emotionally stunted, they can only reach a point of limited success in life, in relationships, in career, in God because they've chosen never to master their emotions. I'm sure the reader knows a few adults who are emotional toddlers, emotional 8 year olds, emotional 10 year olds, emotional 12 year olds - people become stunted in emotional growth at all ages. The ones who allow their emotional life to mature as they mature physically rise to the top and are able to walk with God and see success in life. 
 
After the Lord asks Cain why he is angry, yet getting no response, the Lord tries to reach him another way. Cain knew full and well as did Adam, Eve, and Abel, the meaning of the covering of blood for their sin, but he was unwilling to be honest, so the Lord takes another approach, this time directly to his emotions: "Why are you sad?"
 
The root of God's expectations and our abilities
In the Hebrew it literally says "Why has your face fallen?" The root word for 'fallen' is 'panah' which means 'to turn'. In other words, the Lord could see the expression of Cain's face change when the sacrifice of his own sweat was not accepted by God whereas Abel's blood sacrifice was accepted. Cain's face mirrored his emotions. He was hiding nothing. The first question was directed to Cain's intellect. The second to his emotion - why are you showing such sadness in your face and emotions Cain? 
 
Again, Cain refuses to examine his emotions. This shows us a person CAN have authority over what they feel, over their emotions. This shows us a person CAN examine their feelings intellectually and determine if what they feel is justified, and therefore if what they feel is 'real' for that situation. Yes his feelings of anger and sadness were real in terms of their feelings, but not real in terms of being justified - therefore he was expected by God to take control over his emotions by his thoughts, by the foundation of whether what he was feeling was right or not for that situation. 
 
When Cain does not answer 'Why are you angry?' and 'Why has your face fallen?' - that is Cain refuses to examine himself intellectually or emotionally, the third time the Lord goes right to the heart of the matter, again appealing to logic: "If you do what is right, won't it be accepted?"
 
Notice the way God expects us to approach life's situations - logically, intellectually, to do what is right because it is right, and therefore to examine our emotions and keep them under the control of our thought processes - at least in terms of right and wrong. You're going to cry at the end of that sad movie - that's not what I'm talking about. But finding ourselves in a situation where our emotions flare up, we are expected as Cain was, to first examine ourselves and our motives by right thinking to discover if our emotions are righteous emotions for that situation. If not, we are to take control over them by reasoning and think of the situation the right way, God's way. 
 
Our lives are to pivot around right and wrong, just motives and just actions, not feelings. Cain didn't feel happy, but he was to have taken authority over his feelings in favor of doing what is right. If he did right his emotions would have changed to the positive. Cain's uncontrolled emotions are about to bring death to Paradise, just as many people today through their unbridled emotions have brought death to friendships and job, marriages and relationships with family members - and we'll pick it up there next week. Until then, blessings,
 
John Fenn
www.cwowi.org and email me at cwowi@aol.com
 

Hi all,
I wanted to give you an update as many have written, emailed, FB Messenger'd iand Skyped me for updates and to let me know they are praying for me - thank you! On Wednesday, August 9 at 7:30-8:30 Central Time (USA) I will undergo a 'cardioversion' to try to restore the normal electrical pattern in my heart. This is done by knocking me out with anesthetic and then while the heart is still beating, electrically shock the heart (think emergency paddles 'clear', zap, listen for heart beat 'as seen on TV') - the hope is the Atrial Fibrillation (AFib), which for me is the upper left quadrant of my heart that has had basically static electricity due to a nerve that went crazy, continually firing, will stop that and get back in line with the rest of the heart. My cardiologist described the electrical charges in that upper left quadrant as 'a room full of kindergartener's let loose in a room without supervision' - so we'll try to bring it back into order. I appreciate your prayers and will update you in this space next week. (Also, my regular Wednesday morning Facebook Live teaching will be on Tuesday the 8th (next week only) at 8am Central Time rather than Wednesday the 9th)
It is hard to believe at times, but emotions are a gift from God and part of what makes us in His likeness. But they sure can cause us problems! 
 
Even the definitions of emotion vary from dictionary to dictionary indicating we humans struggle with wrapping our minds around what they are. Definitions from various sources include: "A state of mind derived from one's circumstances', and 'a state of consciousness in which joy, sorrow, fear, hate and the like is experienced', and 'emotion is a complex reaction to situations around us.' Really...a complex reaction to situations....? 
 
We know what emotions are, but we can't find a definitive description upon which to agree! That makes me so mad! Wait...that makes me laugh...wait...that makes me frustrated...wait...oh, emotions. God-given but often used by the devil to make our lives miserable with a skill that makes us at times feel like puppets on his string. 
 
Emotions can be affected by hormones, circumstances, by the sugar level in our blood, by a movie we are watching or a great night out with friends. From funerals to births, weddings to touches from the Lord that sweep from our spirit outward to overwhelm our emotions, and so much more. That said, much of church culture has substituted emotion for the anointing which has resulted in Christians not knowing the voice of God from their own thoughts and emotions  
 
I describe the anointing as the presence of God which may be felt in our spirit. - and many Christians act out of the emotion (or even the) spirit of fear but call it faith. 
 
Why did the Father give us emotions?
From the perspective of God who created human beings, in order to make us totally free-willed beings He had to endow us with the ability to think (reason) and the ability to feel (emotion) in order to properly understand Him and His creation and to function well in both realms - spiritual and natural. We are emotional because our Creator is emotional, which I'll show later. 
 
Intellectually we understand art, but it is our emotion by which we feel what the art is communicating. Intellectually we understand the sun low on the horizon means its light is being sent through layers of dust, but we lay that aside to ooh and ahh as we stop everything to watch the fleeting beauty of a sunset. A baby has a way of turning the most cerebral man or woman into a babbling idiot making all sorts of weird sounds and scrunching their faces as they interact with the child. 
 
We need our emotions as they are to balance our thought processes. Without emotion we become robots, more logical than Spock from the Star Trek series, too cerebral to feel emotions, therefore too insensitive to be able to feel God's presence in our spirit, to feel passionate love, too unfeeling to give emotional support to a spouse. Yet if we are all emotion we make decisions ranging from financial to relationships and everything in between without thinking them through which leads to heartache and misery. It is the balance between controlling emotion and thinking through things that cause us to prove the will of God in our lives with the resultant blessings and peace. 
 
There is a line from the song "I do" by the singer "Jewel" that says "Life can take a long time if you make the wrong choice", that is so true. When Paul lists the 'works of the flesh' and the 'fruit of the spirit/Spirit' from Galatians 5: 19-23, many of each are emotions, or are at least manifest emotionally: 
 
"...adultery, hatred, strife, jealousy, rage, envy, love, joy, peace, the giving of grace, goodness, self control..."
 
It is that mix of emotion and spiritual flow that we are interested in. How do we control our emotions, how do we think through decisions and find God's will as we balance emotion and logic? What is our part and what is God's part? How much common sense does He expect us to use and when we experience fear of what might happen or what could go wrong how do we find His assurance in our emotions (or spirit) He won't let the worst case imagination bouncing around our emotions happen? 
 
The balance between intellect and feelings
In Genesis 3:21 we are told the Lord Himself killed animals in order to make clothing of skins for Adam and Eve, in the first direct instruction and prophecy about a future sacrifice covering our sin, even doing away with sin that had entered the world. Clothing therefore is meant to glorify God and remind us clothes are a type of His covering for mankind and His sacrifice for our sin. Too bad so much of the fashion industry has been perverted to make clothing sexual and that which glorifies His creations rather than the Creator. 
 
But Adam and Eve were instructed on the types and shadows in the animal sacrifice which allowed their sin to be covered, and they passed this knowledge to their children, including Cain and Abel. Abel offered a sacrifice of blood, submitting himself to the righteousness of God. 
 
No respect - the first conflict of emotions
Cain however rebels against the pattern of blood sacrifice as an offering and recognition of God covering their sin, and instead offers vegetables from his own efforts, from his own strength, setting the pattern for all false religions to follow. Any religion, or any effort within even Christianity which attempts to approach God from that which we have done, is in the same spirit as Cain's religious efforts to come to God on his own terms. 
 
It doesn't matter whether that religion requires certain clothing to be worn, washing in a particular river, making gifts to dead relatives, going door to door seeking converts, saying set prayers at set times, or any other man-made formulas, they are all rejected for they are like Cain's sacrifice from his own efforts. 
 
This is why in the Old Testament when they made an altar for sacrificing an animal to God, His instructions were to not try to shape the stones in any way, but to use them as they found them in the ground - nothing related to salvation could be of man's efforts. This is why God instructed men to remove their shoes in His presence in the Old Testament, because shoes are man-made and no one comes to God out of His own efforts - God insisted they come bare-footed as they were created. 
 
The clash between thoughts, emotions, and God
When Cain's vegetables are not received he is angry, sad, and angry at God. He will soon take out his anger on his brother, though the Lord made several attempts to have Cain deal with his thoughts and emotions before he took action - but Cain like so many of us, blew right through God's efforts to appeal to right thoughts and feelings, and murdered his brother. That process is a road map to this day, for God has not changed in the way He deals with us when we are conflicted between our thoughts and our swirling emotions. 
 
And that is where we'll pick it up next week, until then, blessings,
John Fenn